Nikita smiling while speaking into a microphone at an event. She has shoulder-length brown hair and is wearing a lilac lace-trimmed blouse and a conference lanyard, appearing confident and engaged on stage.

Hi! I’m Kita, short for Nikita.

I go by both.

I’m not here to sell you an image of me. My ego is interesting, but it’s not why I created this website.

What this is is a virtual handshake to you, glorious human compatriot. We are both alive on this planet at the same time, which means we came here together to play the game of life. And though we all play a bit differently, I’m here to play it in full truth.

The image is not truth; the image is illusion made material through clever tricks.

Tricks like extracting minerals from the earth and shaping them into circuits that move electrons in precise patterns—patterns that generate light and sound, convincing your senses you’re experiencing something real, when what you’re actually perceiving is your screen translating code into color and vibration for your brain to interpret as reality.

See? Reality, for you, is whatever is being coded into your awareness—whatever you’re choosing, with your free will and full agency, to let in.

I’m doing this now. I am writing this from some place, at some time, asynchronously to whatever you’re doing, and yet you’re here. The moment you read these words, we meet in a tiny bridge of consciousness. Your attention animates what I wrote; together we make it real.

This is a strange handshake, I suppose. 😅

My intention here is to show you, by example, that anyone can say anything and your mind will absorb it when you hear it. It doesn’t matter if it’s true. It doesn’t matter if it’s helpful or unhelpful; your brain simply records, and repetition plus emotion reinforce those pathways. When you speak from what you’ve absorbed, you help weave the collective fabric in which we all live.

Our attention has been treated like currency for a long time, and in a way it is—but that’s only one layer. Attention is a current inside a much larger stream. And the larger stream has other forms that are calling for our awareness.

If you’d like to explore that current more deeply, come find me on Substack. That’s where I’m writing right now, and where I’d love to continue this conversation about how we got here—and where we might go, together.

xoxo,

🌺 Kita

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